Considering a divorce? Be careful about following advice of friends
Couples who are having problems may consult friends who have been through a divorce to gain an understanding about what might happen in their situations. They may come to rely upon this advice, which could have extremely negative consequences for the future.
Every family’s situation is different, and the divorce process will be different for everyone. Some couples will have more assets and debts than others, and those issues play a major role in each divorce, especially in California. Because California is a community property state, it is very important to determine which property was accumulated during the marriage. All of these assets, including the marital home as well as the retirement accounts of one of the spouses, will be subject to a potential 50-50 split.
For many of these divorcing couples, this stage of the process could lead to significant challenges, and may take time to resolve. It may require extensive analysis of certain properties to determine the actual status of the items in question. Couples will frequently disagree about some of these items, and this can result in the process becoming much more complicated and contentious.
If the couple has children, there could be difficulties in finding an agreement concerning custody or parenting time. Each spouse may want to have as much time as possible, and be unwilling to work together to develop a schedule that is in the best interests of the children.
Individuals that rely upon the advice of others who have been divorced can find themselves making poor decisions that may be unable to be reversed. So many people head into the divorce process uncertain about what they need to do to protect themselves and their interests at this difficult time. Once the divorce is filed, it can be much more challenging to focus on these issues, because of the emotions involved.
If you have been thinking of moving forward with a divorce, it is important that you speak to an experienced family law attorney. An attorney will be able to give you advice that is tailored specifically for you and your family, so that you can be confident that you are prepared for what will happen in the future.